Deciding a dating location and activity

A dating place depends on the how much bonding is in between you and your date. While deciding the place for your date you must regard on your date’s interest that is what kind of place he/she likes and how much time you can spend to better know each other.
For the fun loving couples its better idea to go for some new places such as a new food restaurant opened in or near by your town or a new park or some new mall. New and unfamiliar places keep the dates more interesting.
Since the daters are more curious to know each other the date should be fixed to some less crowded place where they have some time to spend and able to get each other and also they should feel comfortable.
If you are the new dater you can’t afford to risk having bad experience like caught by your some known person or if your ex-girlfriend/ex-boyfriend is there this makes your date uninteresting and you want to go home as early as possible.
Some instances can also make your date unpleasant for example if you visit a new hotel or restaurant and there waiter spilled a drink all over your date then your date gets upset and he/she feels to go to home.
You should avoid stabbing to some classics place as it can turn into a LAZY date. You even can’t able to express anything and your date can show a dreary kind of behavior.
Always look for your date’s interest.
Whenever you plan to meet your date you first refer to your date as it will do better if your date enjoys the activity you are doing to that place chosen by both of you and if it consists of activities and locations that make your date feel bore then your date will transfer its all feelings into disinterest. In other terms if place chosen by you is boring then your date will feel that your boring person.
If some follows these above stated tips he/she can enjoy his/her date with lot of fun and enjoyment.
You should always try to observe body language of your date as you can get to know whether your date is feeling bore or uncomfortable with you. Always choose that place which can convert your date in to real fun.
What to do and what to not do on your first date...
To keep your first impression there should be some rules that one should follow.

Topics to be discussed (dos)-

1. You should check for your date’s interest .Your conservation should start with some polite talks. Some new topics should also be discuss and few common factors also be counted by both the individuals.
2. You should able to reveal your internal feelings to your date and be frank to your date as possible you can.
3. You should able to present your ideas about the dating activity which can prove helpful for the both of people involved
4. You should talk about your date’s hobbies, favorite movies or favorite food this will help to get open in front of your date and he/she will feel comfortable.
5. You should always chit-chat about your naughtiness which you use to do during your childhood or in your home or your hometown.

Topics not to be discussed (don’t)-

1. Never discuss about your financial status nor ask your date too many financial related questions. This will make your first date too personal and thus look embarrassing.
2. Never talk about your past relations with your ex. as it will lose your partner confident on you and indirectly can affect your relation for the future.
3. Never compare your date with your ex. as at this moment you start comparing your date will feel infuriating and will kick you out from their life.
4. Never have a discussion regarding your nagging mother or smoking father etc as it will give bad impression on your date.
5. Never try to get over smart or show superiority in front of your date as it can show devastating effects.
If one follows these DO s and DON’T s, he/she can maintain the healthy relationships for the future.